Two nights ago Bloody Good Bloke fell asleep early while I was still unpacking our stuff in our new place near Byron Bay. I worked for a few hours...
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How long should you take to get over your ex?
This morning Bloody Good Bloke texted me to find out how my catch up with Bloody Good Chap had gone. “I only cried all the way home this time, not...
How to stop yourself from spiralling into a 2 day pass-ag tantrum at your partner
Yesterday Bloody Good Bloke jumped into the driver's seat of my car with very wet, salty togs on. I (mildly) snapped at him. He (mildly) snapped...
What to do when you turn into a cold ice queen and accidentally bugger up relationships
At times, Neville has been pretty irate (in my head) towards the people whose relationships with me have deteriorated since I started this blog 7...
How to know whether to leave when you’re scared shitless there’s nothing better out there
My relationship with Bloody Good Chap was one of the most transformative and healing experiences of my life. For both him and I, our relationship...
A romantic camping trip… to my balcony (complete with a campfire in a birdbath)
My new man and I (????) had a week booked to go away camping and Airbnb-ing in regional Victoria the day after Melbourne lockdown round 2 was...
Why is he pulling away?
I have a friend, Roger*, who I have a fascinating intellectual connection with. It seems impossible for our catch ups to last any less than 3 hours....
What to do when you’re being all self-destructive about a breakup… or anything!
Since ending my relationship with Bloody Good Chap and re-entering the dating scene wayyyy too prematurely, I’ve been assailed with not-fun...
Shit, I got ghosted already!
I just got ghosted for the first time (in 6 years) and I’m pissed! Jk, I'm not pissed, I'm hurt and disappointed. But Neville doesn't like those...
Accidental dancing whiplash and a first date
Well wouldn’t you know it, I woke up with whiplash from dancing too enthusiastically at No Lights No Lycra. I dusted off my raving skills from circa...
My New Boyfriend is an App
Ah shit, ????♀️ I got totally caught up in my Bumble dating rampage and forgot to come back to you with the detailsssss of the big sale going on...
Bumble dating, Earl grey martinis, and 15th wheeling: an update
Oops, I paused blog writing and leapt off social media to do a bit of grieving of the end of my lovely relationship with Bloody Good Chap, while...
How to turn a passive-aggressive standoff into relationship gold
Last week someone triggered the living nightlights out of me with a passive aggressive response to something I retrospectively realised I’d been a...
The secret meaning of “I don’t do drama” (and what to do about it)
On their first date, a friend recently had a guy turn to her and say “I don’t do drama.” As soon as she told me, my red-flag meter zinged up to 100...
The end of the Bloody Good Chap-ter
It’s with a mounting pile of tissues next to me that I let you know that Bloody Good Chap and I recently made the extremely difficult decision to...
What to do when you’re craving more love from your partner (or Tinder)
In my early 20s I fell in love with a delightful Australian man whilst romantically sailing around Croatia with a bunch of drunk, sunburnt Aussies....
I’m so underfu%#ed it’s not funny!
Image via Pinterest I’m so underfu%#ed it’s not funny! This was the opening line of an email I received last week from one of my blog readers, Emma....
How to own yourself as a woman – more YOU and less “everything that everyone else wants”
Image via PinterestLike many other strong, independent women of my generation, I accidentally took feminism to mean that I would need to be more...
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How to stop a bad day in its tracks
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Everyone has experienced bad days when everything goes wrong from the very morning. It is important to learn how to stop the negativity and get back into a positive frame of mind. Ways to cope with a bad mood include meditation, exercise and even a simple walk in the fresh air. However, there are some more unusual methods that can be a real eye-opener.
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Bad days happen to everyone, but it's important to find your own way to cope. Some people are helped by meditation, others - physical activity, and for some a great way to distract and restore mental balance will be a game at online casinos. The main thing is to choose something that suits you and helps you to return good mood and peace of mind.
One such method is a hobby that distracts you from negative thoughts and brings pleasure. For example, online gaming. An interesting option is a legal online casino in Germany. It allows you to immerse yourself in excitement and distract yourself from problems. In addition, the game can become not only entertainment, but also a way to earn money.
At https://psychosoziales-adressbuch-krefeld.de/ you can learn more about legal online casino gaming in Germany in 2024. It can be a great way to switch gears and spend your time in a fun and rewarding way.
Bad days happen to everyone, but it's important to find your own way to cope. Some people are helped by meditation, others - physical activity, and for some a great way to distract and restore mental balance will be a game at online casinos. The main thing is to choose something that suits you and helps you to return good mood and peace of mind.