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A romantic camping trip… to my balcony (complete with a campfire in a birdbath)
My new man and I (😲) had a week booked to go away camping and Airbnb-ing in regional Victoria the day after Melbourne lockdown round 2 was...
How a swift kick of crushing disappointment became one of the best things that’s happened to me all year
When Covid hit, I lost a tonne of money, melted down, wailed on the floor for a few days, and then was unexpectedly handed the most incredible work...
Should you feel guilty for being white even if you’re “not racist”?
A friend of a friend, Raymond*, mentioned that he is all for the #BlackLivesMatter movement, but that he doesn’t feel that we (white people) should...
How not to be an insecure mess in front of folks who scare you (E.g. the hot guy whose “out of my league”)
Recently I went on a date with a guy who I described to my mates as “out of my league”. We had an amazing connection, and I was scared. We had so...
Scared to do what you know you need to do? (AKA Why I kicked my flatmate out)
A few weeks ago I decided to get a flatmate to help me through the Covid rollercoaster. I was excited right up until the moment that he turned out...
When life gives you a slap, would you rather be bamboo, or a dried old stick?
When Covid hit the bigtime, I lost $22,000 worth of corporate contracts and Airbnb bookings within the space of 3 days. Suffice to say, my nervous...
What to do when your mind gets stuck on rumination mode
Last week I caught Neville becoming as repetitive as that time my dad gave my 16yo self a party pill and I talked a random guy’s ear off. “I’m sad.”...
How to freak out 12% less about COVID19
Yesterday I walked around the botanical gardens at 10pm crying like a madzer. At a couple of points, I properly wailed. Luckily the track was empty....
What to do when your mind turns into A Horrible Bastard x 10 to the power of 6
Since becoming single again, Neville (my mind) has turned into A Horrible Bastard x 106. When I walk past any mirror (ESPECIALLY mirrors in airport...
What to do when you’re being all self-destructive about a breakup… or anything!
Since ending my relationship with Bloody Good Chap and re-entering the dating scene wayyyy too prematurely, I’ve been assailed with not-fun...
What to do when both you and your mate throw your toys out of the cot, and both of you are too stubborn to reconvene
This morning my friend sent me a text that was so passive aggressive that Neville immediately announced "Well fuck him, dismissive prick, we’re done...
My New Boyfriend is an App
Ah shit, 🤦♀️ I got totally caught up in my Bumble dating rampage and forgot to come back to you with the detailsssss of the big sale going on over...
Bumble dating, Earl grey martinis, and 15th wheeling: an update
Oops, I paused blog writing and leapt off social media to do a bit of grieving of the end of my lovely relationship with Bloody Good Chap, while...
How to turn a passive-aggressive standoff into relationship gold
Last week someone triggered the living nightlights out of me with a passive aggressive response to something I retrospectively realised I’d been a...
The secret meaning of “I don’t do drama”, and what the schnaffle to do about it
On their first date, a friend recently had a guy turn to her and say “I don’t do drama.” As soon as she told me, my red-flag meter zinged up to 100...
The end of the Bloody Good Chap–ter
It’s with a mounting pile of tissues next to me that I let you know that Bloody Good Chap and I recently made the extremely difficult decision to...
What to do with that sneaking suspicion that no one loves you and everyone is using you, probably
A few weeks ago a new friend triggered the bejaysus out of me, fist-to-the-gut style in a bar in Richmond. Over beers, he asked me if I could read...
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