Last week my heart was racing all day, I had a horrible sick-jittery feeling in my chest, and my body felt a bit racey all over. For no good reason....
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The time I nearly flipped out at Bloody Good Chap. But then didn’t.
When I arrived back from my 9 days away in Mullumbimby, I was excited to hang out with Bloody Good Chap after he finished work. I’d really missed...
How to reinvigorate your relationship
2 days ago Bloody Good Chap and I were finally honest with each other about a few things we’ve been keeping to ourselves. We’ve been feeling disconnected from each other – still spending lots of time together, making time for date nights, but not feeling connected and open and playful like we usually do. Our […]
How to become a Well F*%ked Woman
Sex used to feel mighty average for me, it didn’t seem to matter how skilled or loving or enthusiastic my partners were, it all just felt like a bit...
How to come alive again
This morning I woke up excited to try a slice of homemade bread from my new gluten-free bread maker, then as I chowed down on my...
How I got out of my no-sex-drive rut last week
Image via PinterestA week ago I completely lost my libido and great sex slid back down to the bottom of my priorities. It wasn’t long before I...
Are you saying “yes” when you mean “no”?
Image via PinterestGuest post by Kim AnamiAre you saying "yes" when you mean "no"?Fuck, yes! Is an unequivocal yes. If it’s hesitation, if it’s...
Salt-and-pepperise your sex-life
Image via Pinterest It was around the age of 23 when I gave up on the idea that sex would ever feel as good as it looked like it could. It always...
She owns it
Image via Kim AnamiGuest post by Kim AnamiShe owns it.I can spot it from across the room. So can everyone. When I’m watching the women I work with...
Is Chemistry Necessary?
Image via Pinterest Guest Post by Kim Anami This is one of the most common things I get asked about: How important is chemistry? Can you get...
How to Come Together
Image via Pinterest Guest Post by Kim Anami Coming together happens on a few levels. When we are emotionally connected and open with each other, the...
Gourmet Sex: The Fastest Path to Growth
Image via Pinterest Guest Post by Kim Anami Even though we can go a certain distance on our own paths of personal and spiritual growth, at a certain...
What to do when you just really want your boyfriend to start buying you flowers again
On our second date BGC prepared a home cooked picnic with his My-Melbourne-Friends Famous sweet potato tuna cakes, but as it was raining a lake that...
What to do when your mind takes over with 5am tales of infidelity
This morning I woke up from a nightmare that BGC had just told me he’d slept with someone else. I turned to him sleeping next to me and wondered if...
How to meet your sexy partner in crime, and other scary-as-hell things
Four years ago, I had never dated before. I'd met my boyfriends at Uni and while travelling, no effort required. So when I moved off superyachts to...
What do to when “ummmm… hmphh” is your mind’s default response to sex
Lately when I think about sex, my mind says “Ummmm… hmphh”. Even though I’ve done all these sex courses. Even though I read and talk so much about...
5 Reasons Why You Are Not Having Vaginal Orgasms
Image via Pinterest Guest post by Kim Anami. First off, let me say unequivocally, that EVERY woman is capable of deeper vaginal orgasms. By...
What to do when your boyfriend stops holding hands with you
Yesterday as I walked down the cobbled street in San Cristobal, I realised that BGC wasn’t reaching out to hold my hand like he normally does....
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