Sex used to feel mighty average for me,

it didn’t seem to matter how skilled or loving or enthusiastic my partners were, it all just felt like a bit of an act to me, one that I was determined to be good at.

But I could never come, and I wasn’t about to start pretending,

so both my partners were always left disappointed, and it was that that I cared about, not my own pleasure.

I had no idea that the subtle objectification that I’d experienced from a very young age – y’know, that day to day objectification that all females become so used to that we don’t even realise it’s happening – had slowly but surely shut me down sexually, and twisted my ideas about female sexuality into a big shemozzle in my head.

And so, at a young age I decided to sweep all the sexual stuff under the carpet, where it lay, dormant for the first quarter century of my life.

Until one day I came across an article that lead me to another article that lead me to dive dive into a Google fiesta of sexual self-development. I found that in some ancient cultures, sex was considered an art form, a path to enlightenment, to self-understanding, and even a form of healing that could be prescribed by a doctor! I discovered that I could study it just like all the other uni subjects I’d spend years studying.

But what I found when I tried to wade through Google was a whole bunch of esoteric, breathy, bizzare, and plenty of downright creepy bollocks.

Enter Kim Anami, the first person I’d ever come across who could explain these ancient concepts in a way that my practical, woo-adverse brain could handle and implement. As soon as I found it, I knew I had to sign up for the Well F*%ked Woman course.

 

 

And I can honestly say it is hands down the most life-changing, enlightening, eye opening course I have ever done –

and over the past 6 years I’ve done many, many courses.

If you can feel that niggling feeling that I felt – the one that tells you you’re not quite owning your body and your sexuality fully, the part of you that whispers that you want more vibrancy and aliveness in your life and relationships… then I can’t recommend Kim’s Well F*%ked Woman course more highly – you can click here to get the free video series until July 17th 2019, then the epic paid program opens for registration until August 2nd 2019 (you can use the same link for both)!

I did the course when I was single, and it set the stage for my foray into Tinder dating,

it helped me get clear on what to look for in a partner, helped me resolve some of the crap that was stopping me from truly connecting with and opening up to other men.

I’ve no doubt that without the Well F*%ked Woman course, I would never in a million years have been able to create this incredible relationship that I’ve been in for the last few years with my Bloody Good Chap.

I would have fecked it up long ago if it weren’t for the concepts Kim taught me about years before we even met.

You have until July 17th to get Kim’s FREE Well F*%ed Woman video series by clicking this link! After that, you can use the same link to sign up for the epic paid program – registration is open 18th July – 2nd August 2019.

 

 

If you have any questions about the course, please feel free to email me, I’m an open book and I only want you to sign up if it’s going to be as life changing for you as it was for me.

PS. When you sign up for Kim’s Well F*%ked Woman (paid) course through my affiliate links, you also get access to my bonus module, Sex & Mindfulness, one of my most honest and revealing modules ever where I’ll teach you the biggest lessons I’ve used to change my sex life so that you can start trying them out in your life!

To get free access to the bonus module, sign up for WFW here before registration closes Friday 2nd August 2019 at midnight PST. Come. Do the course with me.

If you’re keen to hear more about our upcoming online group stress reduction (and other epic things!) workshop series, click here and I’ll send you more info soon!

I'm feeling so inspired and excited about it, I can't wait to share what I'm brewing up over at Project Self HQ (Aka yoga pants + slipperville)

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