Here we are at part 3 of the “We made a frozen baby” series! (Part 1 here. Part 2 here.) — I’mma share all the details in this post, so if you’re...
We made a (frozen) baby! (Part 3)
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Supplements that boost fertility
Note: this post is a supplement to: We made a (frozen) baby! (Part 3) To improve our fertility in the lead up to freezing embryos, I took a bunch of...
We made a (frozen) baby! (Part 2)
I’ve been trying to work out whether I want kids or not for years. Eventually I hit 35 and thought “Shit, s’alllll downhill from here with me wee...
We made a (frozen) baby!
“Mum, you just became a Grandma!” I cried enthusiastically. “Yes”, my mum laughed indignantly, “But it doesn’t count if they’re not at room...
The first time I ever went to a psychologist
“It sounds like you’re self sabotaging your relationship” Jade reflected.. I nodded sagely, then power walked to the bathrooms to Google self...
The best thing I’ve ever done for my relationship
Intimacy used to feel supremely average for me. I’d act my heart out, playing the part to make my partners feel good, but I didn’t love it like I...
What I learnt from ending the most beautiful relationship
Sheesh, Monday was our 3 year anniversary! Bloody Good Bloke and I regularly turn to each other and say "Fuck, we're so lucky…" I don’t write about...
A side to the abortion debate I hadn’t considered
Yesterday I had a very ragey, emotionally charged conversation with a friend who is on the fence about whether making abortion illegal is a...
An insight brought on by a creepy guy
Yesterday Bloody Good Bloke and I were working from a table overlooking the sea (in Thailand!), when a booming American voice behind me said,...
How I Got Bloody Good Bloke to Fancy Me (Eventually)
The day I first met Bloody Good Bloke in real life (in a park), the image of a mysterious, *surely* arrogant tall-dark-and-handsome that I’d built...
The day I met Bloody Good Bloke across a crowded Zoom screen
On the 7th of May last year, I gazed across a crowded Zoom screen and met this wonderful man named Bloody Good Bloke. I was so drawn to him (mainly...
Why we avoid sex and what to do about it
For the past few weeks, Bloody Good Bloke and I have been chiselling out time for sex or intimacy before 8am every morning before we get stuck into...
How to stop self-sabotaging your happiness (and pleasure)
Two weeks ago, Bloody Good Bloke arrived home from his trail run to an important announcement. "Excuse me. I’ve decided we have to have sex every...
What to do about a friendship that is draining you
During last year’s 4 month lockdown I realised there were a couple of friends in my life who I felt really drained by after we caught up. I would...
The video from Bloody Good Bloke that made me cry
A few weeks ago Bloody Good Bloke sent me a video he’d made that made me burst into tears. The video was of his Nona and Dida — his Croatian...
How to have a difficult conversation with your mate
On Sunday I had an accidentally awkward conversation with a friend that ended really weirdly as she dropped me home. I love this friend, but over...
How to be less of a dick to yourself (and others, probably)
On Sunday, Bloody Good Bloke brought up something about my behaviour earlier that day (see below for details!) that made me furious at him. The kind...
What to do if you struggle to ask for favours
In highschool there was a beautiful girl who I didn’t know well who always seemed to be the star of the show. I felt she was cocky, and I resented...
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