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A romantic camping trip… to my balcony (complete with a campfire in a birdbath)
My new man and I (😲) had a week booked to go away camping and Airbnb-ing in regional Victoria the day after Melbourne lockdown round 2 was...
Why is he pulling away?
I have a friend, Roger*, who I have a fascinating intellectual connection with. It seems impossible for our catch ups to last any less than 3 hours....
What to do when you’re being all self-destructive about a breakup… or anything!
Since ending my relationship with Bloody Good Chap and re-entering the dating scene wayyyy too prematurely, I’ve been assailed with not-fun...
Shit, I got ghosted already!
I just got ghosted for the first time (in 6 years) and I’m pissed! Jk, I'm not pissed, I'm hurt and disappointed. But Neville doesn't like those...
Accidental dancing whiplash and a first date (Also – the 20% sale is ending soon!)
Well wouldn’t you know it, I woke up with whiplash from dancing too enthusiastically at No Lights No Lycra. I dusted off my raving skills from circa...
My New Boyfriend is an App
Ah shit, 🤦♀️ I got totally caught up in my Bumble dating rampage and forgot to come back to you with the detailsssss of the big sale going on over...
Bumble dating, Earl grey martinis, and 15th wheeling: an update
Oops, I paused blog writing and leapt off social media to do a bit of grieving of the end of my lovely relationship with Bloody Good Chap, while...
How to turn a passive-aggressive standoff into relationship gold
Last week someone triggered the living nightlights out of me with a passive aggressive response to something I retrospectively realised I’d been a...
The secret meaning of “I don’t do drama”, and what the schnaffle to do about it
On their first date, a friend recently had a guy turn to her and say “I don’t do drama.” As soon as she told me, my red-flag meter zinged up to 100...
The end of the Bloody Good Chap–ter
It’s with a mounting pile of tissues next to me that I let you know that Bloody Good Chap and I recently made the extremely difficult decision to...
What to do when you’re craving more love from your partner (or Tinder)
In my early 20s I fell in love with a delightful Australian man whilst romantically sailing around Croatia with a bunch of drunk, sunburnt Aussies....
I’m so underfu%#ed it’s not funny!
Image via Pinterest I’m so underfu%#ed it’s not funny! This was the opening line of an email I received last week from one of my blog readers, Emma....
How to own yourself as a woman – more YOU and less “everything that everyone else wants”
Image via PinterestLike many other strong, independent women of my generation, I accidentally took feminism to mean that I would need to be more...
How to increase your energy and stop snapping at strangers 1 week per month
Last week my heart was racing all day, I had a horrible sick-jittery feeling in my chest, and my body felt a bit racey all over. For no good reason....
The time I nearly flipped out at Bloody Good Chap. But then didn’t.
When I arrived back from my 9 days away in Mullumbimby, I was excited to hang out with Bloody Good Chap after he finished work. I’d really missed...
How to reinvigorate your relationship
2 days ago Bloody Good Chap and I were finally honest with each other about a few things we’ve been keeping to ourselves. We’ve been feeling disconnected from each other – still spending lots of time together, making time for date nights, but not feeling connected and open and playful like we usually do. Our […]
How to become a Well F*%ked Woman
Sex used to feel mighty average for me, it didn’t seem to matter how skilled or loving or enthusiastic my partners were, it all just felt like a bit...
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