Sheesh, Monday was our 3 year anniversary! Bloody Good Bloke and I regularly turn to each other and say "Fuck, we're so lucky…" I don’t write about...
What I learnt from ending the most beautiful relationship
read more
Blog
Blog posts on: Most Popular Posts
The Black Sheep’s Guide to getting unstuck
A few months ago one of my coaching clients, Stella, became unsure about what to do next. She wanted to change her job, and move to a new city. She...
What to do when you get jealous AF of a friend
This morning I found myself swirling with an unidentifably unpleasant emotion as I spent far too many minutes scrolling through the Instagram feed...
Checking in
Yeah g’day. Yester-yesterday I did eight squats before crying a bit then lying down on my yoga mat to hyperventilate. Bloody Good Bloke laughed at...
To kid or not to kid – Part 2
Cripes, I just turned 35, the official age at which I will now be referred to by the medical system as a “geriatric mother” (or “advanced maternal...
An insight brought on by a creepy guy
Yesterday Bloody Good Bloke and I were working from a table overlooking the sea (in Thailand!), when a booming American voice behind me said,...
Cripes, I bought a house!
Bloody Good Bloke and I bought a minuscule house!!!!!!!!! Wtf. I damn near had a heart attack at the auction while BGB remained cool, calm and...
To Kid or Not to Kid
Now that I’ve strolled into my mid thirties by accident (also known as the do-I-want-kids panic zone), suddenly there’s a looming-ish time limit on...
How to stop overthinking a big decision
Christ alive, you humans are wonderful! I received so many beautiful emails in response to my last blog post, it was a great reminder for me of one...
What to do when you can’t figure out what to do
I’m not proud to announce: I’m currently lost and confused about what’s next for my life. What I thought was next is no longer possible, and now...
What to do when you find yourself completely oomphless
Somewhere around September something went drastically wrong somewhere in my plans, and instead of what I ordered (a year of joy and ease), I got...
How I Got Bloody Good Bloke to Fancy Me (Eventually)
The day I first met Bloody Good Bloke in real life (in a park), the image of a mysterious, *surely* arrogant tall-dark-and-handsome that I’d built...
The day I met Bloody Good Bloke across a crowded Zoom screen
On the 7th of May last year, I gazed across a crowded Zoom screen and met this wonderful man named Bloody Good Bloke. I was so drawn to him (mainly...
My run in with a sewing machine, an eight lane highway and a trip in an ambulance
One hour after selling my crutches from my fractured left ankle, I went for a run and promptly sprained my right ankle, nearly getting hit by 3...
How to stop self-sabotaging your happiness (and pleasure)
Two weeks ago, Bloody Good Bloke arrived home from his trail run to an important announcement. "Excuse me. I’ve decided we have to have sex every...
What to do about a friendship that is draining you
During last year’s 4 month lockdown I realised there were a couple of friends in my life who I felt really drained by after we caught up. I would...
The video from Bloody Good Bloke that made me cry
A few weeks ago Bloody Good Bloke sent me a video he’d made that made me burst into tears. The video was of his Nona and Dida — his Croatian...
How to have a difficult conversation with your mate
On Sunday I had an accidentally awkward conversation with a friend that ended really weirdly as she dropped me home. I love this friend, but over...
Looking for anything in particular?
Ps — To learn more about regulating your emotions like the kind of legend that doesn’t throw coke at me, head over here to check out Bloody Good Life, an unconventional mind-taming program for overthinkers.
How to stop a bad day in its tracks
Download the free bloody good g-book. Because we've all had enough of e-books