I lay face up staring at the slats of the ceiling with a lump of gravel in my stomach. Was he going to break up with me? How could I fix it? I...
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The NYN technique for preventing emotional take-overs & irrational meltdowns
A few months ago, I had my first ever major tantrum with Bloody Good Chap. On our way to breakfast we spent 10 minutes trying to get a photo...
How to re-find your sense of self amidst the digital age of sprinty-mind
Two couples sit on the couch next to me at my new favourite cafe overlooking rice paddies. They're busy, they're hashtagging. “Babe should I post...
How to open the doors into the padlocked room where your libido lives
I remember the day I realised it wasn’t normal that I had never come and had never even thought to try to make myself come. Ever. I was 20. I sat...
5 steps to stop Chuck Bassing your evenings into the ether
Lately I’ve been getting into bed alone, in Bali, with my phone and my computer, and watching old Gossip Girl episodes (I know, what the hell),...
My first ever major tantrum with Bloody Good Chap
Yesterday I had my first ever major tantrum with Bloody Good Chap. On our way to breakfast we spent 10 minutes trying to get a photo of me laughing...
I have the best life coach in the world
I have the best life coach in the world. There is no way you could work with her and not end up with a bloody good life. Her listening skills,...
What to do about a libido that’s gone on holiday
Lately I’ve found myself not feeling bothered with sex. Like my libido packed it’s bags and said Nah bro, you’re working too hard, ain’t got no...
How to handle jealousy like a boss
Lately I've been trying to catch Bloody Good Chap checking out hot chicks, which there are no shortage of in Byron bay. I point them out to him in...
A simple way to make your day
Recently I cooked a full roast dinner to surprise BGC one night. It took HOURS and the gravy turned out like a scary slug. Tapioca starch does not =...
How to handle sexism and objectification
On Saturday I was lying on the beach reading when a surfer dude came walking towards me. “Those dudes there are filming you” he warned. I looked...
How to be Arnie-confident in social situations
Yesterday the surfer dude who’s Airbnb house I’m living in for the next few weeks in Byron Bay invited me up to have dinner with him and the...
How to get more excited about life and stop being bored
At 11pm on Saturday night, BGC and I lay on the carpet listening to Creedence Clearwater Revival. As I sang along out of tune, he pointed out the...
How to keep that new boyfriend excitement after the comfy undies come out
Just a few months ago I’d wake up every morning and look at BGC next to me with the biggest grin and sense of happiness, I felt so lucky to have...
How to stop trying to change him
I once had amazing boyfriend who sent me a note in the mail every day for a month while I was living in Dublin. Every note had something he loved...
The mysterious sexy underwear with Bloody Good Chap’s clothes
Yesterday I found a pair of sexy underwear in my washing machine among Bloody Good Chap’s work clothes. They weren’t mine. At first I thought, how...
We gazed at each other across a crowded Tinder screen
Today it’s been a whole year since Bloody Good Chap and I gazed at each other across a crowded Tinder screen and swiped left. Or is it right? I just...
Can’t come from sex? Libido like a snail? Read this
I used to think that I was just one of those chicks who couldn’t come from sex. Or hardly at all for that matter. My first boyfriend bought me a...
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