Lately when I think about sex, my mind says “Ummmm… hmphh”.

Even though I’ve done all these sex courses.

Even though I read and talk so much about sex.

Even though my sex life in the past 2 years is more phenomenal than it’s ever been in any other relationship, by quadruple.

Even though I can come with a partner for the first time in my life.

Even though I love sex once we’re past the initial mind-made “can’t be arsed” phase.

Even though I love BGC more than ever and am strongly physically attracted to him.

I still catch my mind saying

“I should want sex right now”. And “Do I have to?”

And so, this round, coming up on Saturday, I’m going to be doing Kim Anami’s Vaginal Kung Fu course, again.

Lifetime access is the best.

Because, sometimes you can’t be arsed going to the gym and making yourself fit even though you know it’s life changing.

And sometimes you can’t be arsed doing the work it takes to keep your libido fired up, even though you know it’s life and relationship changing.

Because every time I get into a good swing of things with exercise or turn-on, my period comes and buggers everything up for a few days while I busy myself feeling hibernatey and constructing a bed cave. By which time I can’t be arsed getting back in the fitness or libido game. Every damn month.

Which is why

I need a personal trainer for my orgasms and libido.

Kim Anami.

This is Kim here, we met a couple of months ago on a super secret expedition that I’m not allowed to tell you about.

We’re mates now. (Ecky you’re next). Probably more in my head than in Kim’s.

Hire Kim as your libido & orgasm sexual PT, and I promise you you won’t regret it.

(Even if you’re just slightly intrigued, check out the page here,

you’ll learn stuff that blows your mind

even if you don’t end up signing up!)

Not many PTs offer you a 30 day full money back guarantee after you’ve already done half the course, so you’re safe even if you don’t love it as much as I’m sure you will.

Registration for Kim’s Vaginal Kung Fu ends tonight and doesn’t reopen for another year.

Give your orgasms the wake up call they deserve.


VKF is great if you’re single and great if you’re in a relationship, I’ve done it during both phases of my life. When I was single it was hugely transformative and I felt more attractive and sure of myself when I went on dates.

It’s not about the man, or about needing to have sex,

it’s about being turned on, in life and in the bedroom, and being responsible for your own turn on.

Look after yourself for a change. Empower yourself.

Join me in kung-fu-ing our libido back into shape.

(Or just check out the sales page because it’s fascinating!) I’m a proud affiliate for Kim’s courses, they’re one of the only things I promote because

I wholeheartedly believe they’ll change your life as they’ve changed mine.

When you sign up, email me or message me on FB with your email address and I’ll send you my very honest, very raw BGL bonus module: Sex & Mindfulness for free!)

This is your LAST chance to sign up for another year, registration closes in:

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