How to improve your confidence

How to improve your confidence

Yesterday I stood at the front of a room of 45 advertising execs and their teams, and buggered up the first 15 seconds of my workshop. I started out ok, then 1 sentence in, my tongue got stuck in my mouth, and I paused for a millisecond too long. A mini panic ensued...
How to wrangle more love into your life

How to wrangle more love into your life

Today as I sat in the airport watching the silent news up on the departures board, all I could see were trucks and trucks of hay bales crossing Australia. It seemed as though 50 truck loads of donated hay was making its way across the country to help farmers in NSW...
How to reinvigorate your relationship

How to reinvigorate your relationship

2 days ago Bloody Good Chap and I were finally honest with each other about a few things we’ve been keeping to ourselves. We’ve been feeling disconnected from each other – still spending lots of time together, making time for date nights, but not feeling...
How to handle when others judge and criticise you behind your back

How to handle when others judge and criticise you behind your back

Two weeks ago I felt as though I was being stabbed in the gut when I discovered that some people I thought I knew pretty well have been judging the bejaysus out of me and discussing me behind my back without ever talking to me about any of it. Doing the job I do, I’m...
How to handle judgement and comparison [VIDEO]

How to handle judgement and comparison [VIDEO]

Last Friday I deleted Instagram off my phone, again. For the 5th time. Probably. I was busy judging the bejaysus out of some people’s stories, and judging the bejaysus out of myself while watching others’ amazing stories, and I decided, feck this, get off my phone you...
What to do when you accidentally fly off the handle

What to do when you accidentally fly off the handle

Recently I was on the receiving end of some road rage, and it scared the living bejaysus out of me. Until I got angry. I pulled up into the designated bike space (on my bike) at the front of the traffic lights. The SUV dude behind me, who was already half way into the...
How to stop buggering up our friendships with insecurities

How to stop buggering up our friendships with insecurities

I had a friend who I treated very badly because of my insecurity. I’ll call her Jess. I was seethingly envious of Jess. I was certain she wasn’t much into our friendship, so when I later realised how badly I’d hurt her, I was shocked. I never believed she cared enough...
How to handle competition and envy in female friendships

How to handle competition and envy in female friendships

In the last few weeks, a friend of mine has completely shifted the way I think about the subtle jealousy and competition that lurks around in the background of many female friendships. My mate Em is a facilitator who runs her own mindfulness business as I do, yet for...