How I got out of my no-sex-drive rut last week

How I got out of my no-sex-drive rut last week

Image via PinterestA week ago I completely lost my libido and great sex slid back down to the bottom of my priorities. It wasn’t long before I started to feel a bit disconnected from BGC again, our intimacy faded, and life started to lose its shine. Since I know this...
Are you saying “yes” when you mean “no”?

Are you saying “yes” when you mean “no”?

Image via PinterestGuest post by Kim AnamiAre you saying “yes” when you mean “no”?Fuck, yes! Is an unequivocal yes. If it’s hesitation, if it’s stalling, if it’s deflecting. It’s a no. If your pussy is wet, gushing down your thighs, and your...
Salt-and-pepperise your sex-life

Salt-and-pepperise your sex-life

Image via Pinterest It was around the age of 23 when I gave up on the idea that sex would ever feel as good as it looked like it could. It always looked so fun in movies and on TV, but in reality, no matter how hard I or my partners tried, it felt “pretty good” at...
She owns it

She owns it

Image via Kim AnamiGuest post by Kim AnamiShe owns it.I can spot it from across the room. So can everyone. When I’m watching the women I work with go through the process of transformation, there are many milestones. As you grow into your true and sexual self, several...
Is Chemistry Necessary?

Is Chemistry Necessary?

Image via Pinterest Guest Post by Kim Anami   This is one of the most common things I get asked about: How important is chemistry? Can you get it back if you once had it? What if you never had it? For starters, what is chemistry? Chemistry is the...
How to Come Together

How to Come Together

Image via Pinterest Guest Post by Kim Anami Coming together happens on a few levels. When we are emotionally connected and open with each other, the orgasmic “coming together” happens easily. When we are blocked and shut down toward each other, the distance prevents...