How to reinvigorate your relationship

How to reinvigorate your relationship

2 days ago Bloody Good Chap and I were finally honest with each other about a few things we’ve been keeping to ourselves. We’ve been feeling disconnected from each other – still spending lots of time together, making time for date nights, but not feeling...
How to become a Well F*%ked Woman

How to become a Well F*%ked Woman

Sex used to feel mighty average for me, it didn’t seem to matter how skilled or loving or enthusiastic my partners were, it all just felt like a bit of an act to me, one that I was determined to be good at. But I could never come, and I wasn’t about to start...
How to come alive again

How to come alive again

This morning I woke up excited to try a slice of homemade bread from my new gluten-free bread maker, then as I chowed down on my more-cake-than-bread piece of bread, I re-read one of my emails: “I love mindfulness and your emails but please don’t email me about...
How I got out of my no-sex-drive rut last week

How I got out of my no-sex-drive rut last week

Image via Pinterest A week ago I completely lost my libido and great sex slid back down to the bottom of my priorities. It wasn’t long before I started to feel a bit disconnected from BGC again, our intimacy faded, and life started to lose its shine. Since I know this...
Are you saying “yes” when you mean “no”?

Are you saying “yes” when you mean “no”?

Image via Pinterest Guest post by Kim Anami Are you saying “yes” when you mean “no”? Fuck, yes! Is an unequivocal yes. If it’s hesitation, if it’s stalling, if it’s deflecting. It’s a no. If your pussy is wet, gushing down your thighs, and your...
Salt-and-pepperise your sex-life

Salt-and-pepperise your sex-life

Image via Pinterest It was around the age of 23 when I gave up on the idea that sex would ever feel as good as it looked like it could. It always looked so fun in movies and on TV, but in reality, no matter how hard I or my partners tried, it felt “pretty good” at...